Thank you all to who took part in my little survey! I really appreciate it, it was mainly to confirm my own ideas and the desires of the community to what would have the most mass impact to the widest range of players for the game.
So seems like Simulation-Semi realistic/cartoony style-female/male character-with multiple body types is a comfortable middle ground for all people interested.
I now am on the look out for programmers skilled with Unity preferably and either C# or C++ to work with me on creating this game. It will literally half the development time. On my own it may be years which I do not mind working on.
Almost all funding comes from your commissions to create this game and once there is more on the dev line, prototypes, character art and media for your attention I may release a kickstarter campaign, patreon etc and basic level donation so you or your loved one perhaps with their permission can be stylised as a character in the game.